21 August, 2019

Chong Pang Toastmasters Club: From the Fourth Industrial Revolution to Emotional Intimacy in One Evening

On 18th August 2019, I was at Chong Pang Toastmasters Club as Project Evaluator, my 34th club visit on the 49th day of the Toastmaster year.  Yuvraj Aher served as Toastmaster of the Day.  John Sih, DTM, served as Language Evaluator.  Matthew Tze served as Timer.  Li Shan Shan, DTM, served as Table Topics Master.

A President Who Practises What She Preaches

President Chang Soek Khim spoke on embracing change, embracing variety, and building a community that is both accepting and vibrant.  The excellent turnout and the club’s obvious vibrancy on the night were themselves the evidence of her argument.  A president who has to argue for vibrancy in the abstract, rather than pointing at the room around her, has usually already lost that argument.  Chang did not need to.

Artificial Intelligence and a Well-Researched Speech

Shirley Tham, DTM, spoke on the onset of artificial intelligence and the fourth industrial revolution it is driving, detailing the economic changes expected in coming years, the jobs workers will need to transition toward, and the occupations heading toward obsolescence.  The World Economic Forum’s Future of Jobs Report 2025, published after this speech but validating its underlying thesis in full, found 92 million jobs will be displaced globally by 2030, alongside 170 million new roles created, a net gain of 78 million positions, though that net figure conceals painful transition costs for anyone whose role sits in the displaced 92 million rather than the newly created 170 million.  The report found 39% of existing skill sets will become outdated within this same window, and 41% of employers plan to reduce headcount where AI can automate the work.  A speech delivered in 2019 anticipating this scale of labour disruption was not speculation.  It was reading the trend line, years before the World Economic Forum put a formal number on it.

From Money to Love, in Consecutive Speeches

Yi Wen spoke on relationships, noting that her previous speech had addressed money, and this one would address love instead.  She went into detail on emotional intimacy and why it matters to a relationship’s survival.  The Gottman Institute’s decades of longitudinal research on couples consistently found that emotional attunement, the willingness to notice and respond to a partner’s bids for connection, predicts relationship stability more reliably than compatibility on any single practical issue.  A speaker willing to address both money and love as sequential, equally serious topics, rather than treating one as substance and the other as sentiment, has understood something most relationship advice conveniently skips: a couple’s finances and a couple’s emotional intimacy are rarely separable problems in practice.

Two Speakers, One Project, Two Different Answers

Both Loo Guan Yee and Tony Tan delivered the same assigned project, addressing their own leadership styles, their understanding of the distinctive styles available, and how they see their own approach evolving.  What emerged from the pairing was instructive: both concluded they apply distinctive styles for separate occasions, rather than defending a single fixed approach as universally correct.  Two speakers reaching the identical, situationally flexible conclusion independently is stronger evidence for that conclusion than either speech alone could have provided.

The Evaluators and Results

Tony Lim, DTM, Sia Hua Lim, DTM, Willie Loh, DTM, and I served as Project Evaluators.  Best Speaker went jointly to Shirley Tham, DTM, and Yi Wen.  Best Evaluator went to Sia Hua Lim, DTM.  A meeting spanning artificial intelligence’s disruption of the global labour market and the mechanics of emotional intimacy in a relationship covered more intellectual ground than most Sunday evenings manage, and did so without either topic feeling out of place beside the other.


Terence Nunis, DTM | Division Advisor, District 80 Division M | Club Advisor, AIA Toastmasters | Past President & Founder, Awesome Toastmasters












































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