09 August, 2019

“Home of the Heart”: When a Meeting Nearly Fell Apart & Excellence Showed Up Anyway

On the 8th August 2019, AIA Toastmasters Club held its chapter meeting under the theme “Home of the Heart.”  Putting this meeting together was considerably harder than it should have been.  An unforeseen series of events forced several external appointment holders, and even some internal speakers, to withdraw with barely a week's notice.  I spent that week hunting down replacements rather than preparing my own material.  I was not impressed, and I still am not, retrospectively.  A club that can absorb that kind of last-minute chaos and still deliver a meeting worth writing about has earned the right to call itself resilient rather than merely lucky.

The Firsts

Michelle Tan was inducted into the club, serving her first appointment as Timer.  Vice-President, Membership Ivan Lee, DTM, conducted the induction.  Soh Yi Kai took on Sergeant-at-Arms for the first time.  Cindy Gan served as Creative Director for the first time as well.

The Opening Address

Jack Sia delivered the opening address, speaking on maintaining the standards and legacy of AIA Toastmasters Club, and the weight of responsibility every member carries in sustaining that excellence.  Given the week we had just survived to get to this meeting at all, the theme landed with more weight than usual.

The Speeches

Linda Lee delivered her first Pathways speech, after nine years as a Toastmaster.  Nine years is a long runway before a “first,” and the speech justified every one of them.  She offered a line worth remembering on its own: “Good, better, best; never let them rest; make the good, better; and the better, best.”  Her speeches have always carried memorable sound bites, and I still recall her earlier, genuinely hilarious speech on struggling with dyslexia, only for the final twist to reveal the diagnosis was entirely self-administered.  That is not merely a good joke.  It is a masterclass in structuring misdirection so the punchline recontextualises everything that came before it.

Eric Tan, DTM, spoke about Jiro Ono, the Japanese chef and owner of Sukiyabashi Jiro, the three-Michelin-starred sushi restaurant in Ginza, Tokyo, regarded by his own peers and contemporaries as the greatest living sushi craftsman.  He drew on his own visit to the restaurant before pivoting into the story of Lee Kuan Yew, Singapore’s founding Prime Minister, drawing a parallel between two men who pursued excellence relentlessly, each within his own discipline.  Woven into National Day itself, the speech argued that people fear excellence more than they fear failure, and that fear, not lack of ability, is what actually holds most people back.  This was technically the most demanding speech of the evening, and he delivered.

Ivan Lee, DTM, spoke on his own challenge convincing former co-workers to adopt a healthier lifestyle, describing an engaging, often funny account of deploying everything from social media campaigns to enlisting management support directly.  A man willing to weaponise both memes and middle management in pursuit of his colleagues’ cholesterol levels has range worth noting.

I delivered my final speech in the Visionary Communication Pathway, my second reflection on the journey, though considerably different from the first.  This time, I spoke about who I actually am, rather than the events and facts I have leaned on for seven years at AIA without ever really letting anyone in the room know me personally.  Seven years is a long time to remain a well-documented set of achievements rather than a person, and correcting that in front of this particular audience felt overdue.

The Appointment Holders

Jeannie Kwara served as Language Evaluator.  Celine Goh, Penny Anne Radcliffe, Wiwiek Najihah and Muhammad Nurhakim, DTM, served as Project Evaluators.  Gerald Ong, DTM, served as Table Topics Master, and brought along a bottle of wine as a prize, which is the kind of incentive that gets people volunteering for Table Topics with genuine enthusiasm rather than reluctant obligation.

The Results

Best Speaker went to Eric Tan, DTM.  Best Evaluator went to Wiwiek Najihah.  Best Table Topics Speaker went to Heny Chen.  A meeting that began the week as a logistical scramble ended it with a first-time Pathways speech nine years in the making, a technically superb National Day tribute, and a personal reflection overdue by seven years.  Chaos in the planning stage does not guarantee a mediocre meeting.  It occasionally guarantees the opposite, provided the people filling the gaps actually show up prepared to work.


Terence Nunis, DTM | Division Advisor, District 80 Division M | Club Advisor, AIA Toastmasters | Past President & Founder, Awesome Toastmasters









































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