On 22nd January 2020, I was at
Cairnhill CC Toastmasters Club as Language Evaluator, my 150th club
visit on the 206th day of the Toastmaster year. Mike Woon, DTM, served as
Sergeant-at-Arms. Terence Tan served as
Toastmaster of the Day. Fernando Young, DTM,
served as Table Topics Master.
Words That Move Mountains
Melvin Tan, in his opening address,
emphasised the importance of using the correct words, illustrated starkly
through the example of suicide watch and speaking to the vulnerable. He argued that words can move mountains, that
words can heal, that words can kill, and that words can open people’s
hearts. The claim is not rhetorical
exaggeration. A 2022 study by Dr. Madelyn
S. Gould and colleagues, published in Suicide and Life-Threatening Behaviour,
found that 90% of texters reaching out through the Crisis Text Line found the
conversation helpful, with half reporting reduced suicidal ideation by the end
of the exchange. That outcome was
produced through text, words alone, with no physical presence and no
medication involved. Tan’s central point
holds that the specific words chosen, in a fragile moment, are not
decorations around the support being offered.
They are the intervention itself.
From Drain Rat to Champion
John Liew shared childhood memories from
his old neighbourhood in Chinatown, recounting the day he fell into a drain and
nearly drowned, earning the nickname “Drain Rat” among the neighbourhood
children. His father responded by
enrolling him in swimming lessons. In
his first competition, he finished first, counting from the back. He persisted regardless, and eventually
became a swimming champion, turning his own detractors into cheerleaders along
the way. He chose to stand where he
fell, rather than avoid the water that had nearly taken him, and rode that
decision into a different identity than the one his childhood nickname had
assigned him.
Climate Change and the Overlooked
Cost
Eliina Chan spoke on climate change,
referencing regional natural disasters to support her position, before
highlighting the effect on biodiversity, a cost frequently overlooked against
the more immediately visible human toll.
A speech willing to name the quieter casualty, rather than resting on
the more dramatic human statistics, demonstrates a thorough grasp of the
subject.
Leadership, Practised Rather Than
Merely Described
Zhou Ming Qin gave a presentation on
exercises in multiple leadership styles, explaining the different approaches
she practises and how she applies each depending on context. A leader who can name which style she is
using, and why, in each moment, has moved beyond instinct into strategic
self-awareness.
A Lesson in Living
Angie Ng gave an account of her experience
paragliding with her family, drawing the lesson that living fully means
actively seeking out new experiences rather than waiting for them to arrive.
The Evaluators and Results
Sushant Pandita, Penny Radcliffe, June
Tan, and Lim Chee Hoo served as Project Evaluators. Best Speaker went to Angie Ng. Best Evaluator went to Lim Chee Hoo. Best Table Topics Speaker went to Rosie. A meeting that opened by naming the weight
language carries in a crisis, and closed with the freedom of a family
paragliding together, covered a wide emotional range for one evening, and did
so without a single transition feeling forced.
Terence Nunis, DTM | Division Advisor, District 80 Division M | Club Advisor, AIA Toastmasters | Past President & Founder, Awesome Toastmasters



















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